Thursday, 5 March 2009

R u a liar?

Hello guys,
This blog is especially dedicated to people who lie. 
I actually wanna understand why people lie? There may be many reasons for you to lie. But there is only one reason why you shouldn't lie. I will tell you the reason at the end, or you yourself may understand when I complete this blog. 
I have many friends. Some are assertive, some are aggressive and some are pessimist.
All who falls into this category sometimes lie. I mean, everyone lies. He He He :)  But not always. Again it depends on situation. Lie is the root cause of broken relationship. A person who trusts you, believes what ever you say. Sir Winston Churchill, quotes some words to the boys at Harrow school,"Sometimes imagination makes things out far worse than they are; yet without imagination not much can be done. Those people who are imaginative see many more dangers than perhaps exist; " This is absolutely true. I have experienced it many a time. You expect/imagine something and if it does not happen you feel very bad. How many of you have experienced the same? Dont wonder, why I gave these quotes here. Again I am raising a question to you, To whom you expect to be loyal and truthful? To someone who is very dear and near to you and someone who comes all along with you till the end of your life. Exactly!!! That is why Iam telling everyone not to lie. People who expects that you are very truthful to them, and at a certain point if they come to know that you are lying for some silly reasons, then they break into pieces (Not physically but mentally) This spoils a healthy relationship and the trust he/she has in you. Iam not perfect but iam trying to be perfect. These days iam not lying and i believe that none is lying when they speak to me. But there are some incidents where my best friends lie for silly things. I once came to know that, then I stopped believing everyone. See, because of a single person now I cant believe others also. The same can happen in any sort of relationship. So, please try to be honest atleast to your close mates which avoids a lot of problems in life.

7 comments:

sirvatsa said...

Hey I am a liar.and i lie to keep ppl around me happy :) try this.. it would help in makin a relationship even more meaningful.. :)

Truth said...

Nice one Raich. But you could have told me this in person :-). I know you have told me many a times. But you know what?

பொய்மையும் வாய்மை யிடத்த புரைதீர்ந்த
நன்மை பயக்கும் எனின்.
(அதிகாரம் - வாய்மை, குறள் எண் - 292)

Raich said...

@Sri,
To be very frank, instead of making a person happy by lying, i vl remain silent but wont lie

@Truth
Oops Kiran. This is not especially meant for you but for all who lie :P
Nalla kural.

நிலாவும் அம்மாவும் said...

wow....I wanted to put a "ditto" of Truth's comments...

I'm a liar.....Everyday I have to cheat my Daughter with something....I tell people that i'm very good in building stories....

but if it is going to harm anyone, then you are on the wrong track....

I like the way you write....Good luck

BTW, do you really need the word verification?

Maddy said...

I second what "truth""Ooops! Kiran quoted from Kural.

As long as it doesn't hurt the other person, for some obvious reason if you need to lie, i don't see its a big issue.

100% honesty is a myth.

Raich said...

Thanks Nilama and Maddy for ur comments.
Yeah, I do agree with what u have said.

Maddy said...

Vishu Aasamsakal!!